Why not to say I love you husband or wife on regular basis even if there is lack of sex in marriage life. Data reveals sexless marriages are more common than most people might believe. Under such circumstances couples are often embarrassed and angry, so they don’t discuss their marital problems with friends, family, or even professionals for marriage mentoring. Often these marriages end in failure because of the lack of effort on the couples part to figure out what the problem is and how to find the best solution to come out of the crisis. But these marriages can be saved and turned around with a little bit of effort and desire to change the relationship. Finding a marriage mentoring expert should be one of the first steps and of course I love you husband or wife should be the regular chant.
According to marriage mentoring experts a marriage is considered sexless when the couple has sex less than ten times a year. It’s estimated that over 15% of married couples (an estimated 20 million couples) have stopped having sex. Most married couples have sex an average of 58 times a year while couples under 30 average 111 times a year.
There are many reasons why one or both couples may become uninterested in sex. A few of those reasons include:
A decreased sex drive, possibly caused my medication
Busy lifestyles and not feeling as if there was time for intimacy
Watching TV in bed instead of having sex
Physical conditions such as erectile dysfunction or vaginal problems
Depression or loss of self esteem
Lack of respect or trust in a relationship
One or both are/were having an affair
Marriage mentoring expert adds further that very often it is actually the man in the relationship who no longer desires sex with his partner. The most common reasons for his disinterest include:
He feels there is a lack of adventure in the couple’s sex life
He no longer finds his wife attractive (most commonly because of significant weight gain)
He feels rejected because his wife seems uninterested in sex
One or both of them are depressed
One or both is or was having an affair (only about 20% of men said that they were the one’s having an affair)
For some couples, not having sex isn’t a major concern, but for most it is a significant problem. Usually a sexless marriage indicates there are other problems within a marriage. Often this will lead couples to engage in affairs or lead to divorce.
Often women withhold sex in an attempt to gain love and respect or as a punishment to their husbands for not appreciating them more. However, it’s just as common for men to feel undervalued and also withhold sex. Men frequently mention that the reason they are no longer interested in sex with their wives is because they feel a lack of the emotional connection they had earlier on in their relationship.
Marriage mentoring for Sexless Marriages
Rekindling sex in a marriage can often be as simple as adding some spice to the relationship. Taking a vacation and trying out a new venue for sex, spending a weekend away from the kids or other family, having some simple alone time together are all ways to help rekindle desire in a relationship.
Talking about sex and opening a line of communication will help build trust and understanding between a couple. Improving these other aspects of a relationship could cause both spouses to feel more trusting of their partners which could help them act on the physical desires they may still have for their spouse.
Adding excitement and adventure to a relationship is another way to keep things from becoming boring. Sexy clothing, toys, and new positions are great ways to throw in a little adventure.
With some couples the problems are too deep-seeded for simple activities like a vacation or trying a new sexual position. In these cases seeing a medical professional (if it’s caused by medication or a physical condition) or a marriage counselor may be necessary to save the marriage and prevent an affair. Affairs are the most common reason cited for a divorce.
Sex doesn’t create a good marriage. Communication, trust, and respect create a good marriage. Feeling desired and loved creates a good marriage. Part of feeling desired involves sex. If there is one problem in a marriage regarding respect or communication, it can seriously affect a couple’s sex life. The most important thing to prevent this is for couples to communicate their concerns to their spouses and show their respect for everything they do.
I love you husband or wife
Apart from all these, it is very important for the couples to frequent express love for each other like by saying I love you husband or I love you wife. The word love has good power to bring two people closer and to rekindle emotional bonding. Most of the marriage mentoring experts suggests couples should say I love you husband or I love you wife at least once in day. Morning is the best time to express the love through such words as it boasts a positive energy and keeps the day energized.
Moreover, couples need to be true to each other and avoid getting too much intimate with other person like colleagues, employees or business partners.
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